Jack & Dr Phil - Become the one (October 10 & 11, 2009)

October 10 & 11, 2009 - Jack & Dr Phil
Become the one
Ruth 3:1-11

Questions:

1. Why was Boaz attractive to Ruth? What signs show us that Boaz had become the one?
2. Why was Ruth attractive to Boaz? What signs show us that Ruth had become the one?
   
3. How did the fact that both Ruth & Boaz had become the one give their relationship a better chance to succeed? Do you think this same principle applies to our relationships? Why or why not?
   
4. How will this change the way your relationships look in the future? How will this change the way your relationships look in the present?
   
5. What is the one thing you can do this week to start to become the one?
   

SUMMARY:
It's tough to meet people and figure out whether we want to be in relationships with them. But instead of frantically looking for "the one," we need to become the one.
We need to stop looking for someone else to complete us or to make us feel important or loved. Instead, like Ruth, we should focus on the ways we can love the people who are already in our lives.